First, please watch this video.
Jesus is a huge fan of community, togetherness, relationship. He’s always been in relationship with the Father and the Holy Spirit. It’s why he came to earth - to restore the relationship between God and each of us that was always supposed to be. When he was here, Jesus was very purposeful in making connections between himself and others and with connecting people to other people. In scripture, we often see him gathered with others, talking to groups, spending time with the Twelve or other friends, eating with people.
There must be something of value there.
Not only were we created for relationship and connection, but we’re also in need of it. While many of us like our “alone time,” none of us likes to feel lonely. There’s a big difference between alone and lonely.
We need each other.
And not just so we have someone to hang out with. Being connected to others in authentic relationship not only keeps us from being lonely, but it also is necessary for our personal growth. I was talking with a young woman recently who expressed her frustration at feeling like things were moving slowly for her - that her emotional and spiritual growth were moving at a much slower pace than she’d like.
My perspective was quite the opposite! I shared with her the tremendous amount of growth I had witnessed in her in just a short period of time. I pointed out very tangible examples of how I’ve seen evidence of her thought patterns changing and her word choices in how she describes herself and events in her life. I viewed her progress entirely differently than she was seeing it.
Often, we don't see progress in ourselves anywhere near as well as others can see progress in us. We think things are moving far more slowly for us than they are. We need another's perspective to help us see the truth about ourselves, the journey we're on, the steps we’ve taken. Inviting others into the journey not only lightens the load, but it also allows us to see our journey - from their perspective - which helps us more accurately see our own progress.
It’s not always easy or comfortable to invite another along for the ride. We’re afraid they’ll see the mess and not want to be a part of the journey. Not everyone will agree to it, but I think you’ll find that far more people will want to join you on your journey than not. Life can be a long trip, and you’ll want quality people along for the ride with you. So, take your time to find your people…to choose your team. And give each other a pep talk every once in a while.
Reluctant to invite others along for the ride? I’d love to talk with you about that! Please feel free to send me an email or schedule some one-on-one time with me. And consider subscribing to my blog, where I post lots of helpful suggestions on how you can begin (and continue) this journey of recovering your blueprint!
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